Confidence Hack

Needing to find some confidence this week? Try this.

Recently a client came to their session with a look of confidence I had never seen them wear before. Normally our sessions would be consumed with talking about one particular issue but we barely touched on it this time round, I asked them if the issue was still present?

It was.

So I asked what’s different? How were they handling it?

Their reply? “I was wearing my Bitch Boots”

Upon further exploration it turned out my client wasn’t actually wearing the boots but in their mind they had laced up a pair of pink leather, thigh high, stiletto boots that gave them the confidence to stand their ground, trust in their professional knowledge and walk away trusting they had delivered what was best for the company they represented.

How do you find your own version of Bitch Boots?

Imagine yourself standing tall against your greatest fear, what are you wearing? Describe it in detail, feel it, give it a name. The more vivid you can get in its description the better. It can be a whole outfit or a part of one. It’s up to you, let your imagination run wild.

I’d love to know what you come up with, let me know.